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Lisa posted a condolence
Friday, November 20, 2015
DAD's EULOGY
First of all let me begin by thanking you all for sharing this celebration of Dad's life with us. It has been a very difficult time for us. Letting go of our dad has not been easy and it means the world to us that you are here. We are comforted by your presence and although I will be the only one sharing stories today, I am really speaking on behalf of all of us...On May 21st, 1920 when Alice and Albert Wilcox welcomed their newborn son, Ernest Albert Wilcox into the world, I wonder what kind of life they imagined for this little baby boy. I wonder what plans they had for him. What aspirations? My guess is that with two children already on their hands, they probably didn't have much time to spend dreaming about their new son's future. Given the kind, good natured folks our grandparents were, and considering the long, healthy, happy lives they lived, it really should be no surprise that our dad went on to have such a wonderful life himself. Our dad was a small man. He never really grew much beyond five feet tall but as we all know good things often come in small packages. From what we know, Dad had a happy childhood. It's hard to imagine anything else considering the folks he was surrounded with. Roy, Bea, Lyle and Marie, like their parents, were fun loving, cheerful folks who in photos and in our memories were always smiling and laughing. Imagine what life was like for them growing up in the small town of Elkhorn, Manitoba back in the 20's and 30's. In many ways life would have been much simpler, but it couldn't have been easy. The world was changing quickly. They lived through the great depression and bore witness to world at war. Like many young men at the time, dad joined the army and set forth on an adventure that I can only imagine must have been exciting and terrifying. He spent four years overseas and was lucky to return home to his friends and family with his body and soul intact. Not unlike many veterans, it took Dad many years before he shared tales of his war experiences. Once begun however, he had an unending collection of stories of his time in Europe. He embraced the role of veteran proudly later in his life and did his part in strengthening our country's respect and appreciation for the sacrifices that Canadian soldiers now command.Considering the times, Dad was a bit late to the alter. It wasn't until he was 32 years old that he and Mom were married. It was a love that would last for the rest of his life. I don't know that you'll ever meet two people who cared for and respected each other more. Their lives together were filled with love and happiness. If they argued, they did it privately. Whenever Dad left the house and whenever he came home, his ritual was always the same. He'd give Mom a kiss and his hand would then slip down and give her a quick pat on the bum. That was their thing. As kids, we grew up knowing that our parents were there for us and that we were their main concern. Although both Mom and Dad worked, they always seemed to be around. They came home for lunch each day, and were always home for supper as a family. It's just the way it was. Our parents worked hard but also knew how to have fun. There was always something going on, whether it was a birthday party, holiday celebration, or a family camping trip to West Hawk Lake or Kenosee. Our grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins were always included in our family activities and as we grew older our friends were always welcomed into our home. I've been a teacher for over thirty years and I know a thing or two about good teachers. The other day friend of mine sent me the following quote from Umberto Eco...
"I believe that what we become depends on what our fathers teach us at odd moments, when they aren't trying to teach us. We are formed by little scraps of wisdom."
Our dad was an excellent teacher alright. He taught us not so much by his words but in his actions. You see he modelled for us how to be a supportive and loving part
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Lisa posted a condolence
Friday, November 20, 2015
DAD'S EULOGY Continued……
When I was a young man, perhaps 19 or twenty, my dad and I were have a conversation. You could call it an argument, but I don't remember it being particularly heated. I believe it was at a time when I was deciding what to do next with my life. I was working in retail and had a pretty good job managing a jean store. I was considering quitting the job and continuing my studies to become a teacher. Dad was having a hard time understanding my restlessness and was undoubtedly worried about my future. I remember him saying to me that I wasn't content, and was too quick to move on to something new. I remember vividly, telling my dad, with all the wisdom of the self righteous know it all that I was, that his problem was that he was too content. Years later, older, and, arguably wiser, I find myself reflecting on that time and realize how lucky my dad was to have reached contentment. So few of us ever do. The last few years have been difficult for Dad because of the challenges that come along with a body that has reached it's best before date. Yet he rarely complained. Thanks to the support and care of the professional and support staff at Home Care, Brandon Regional Health Centre, Fairview Adult Day Program, Brandon Clinic, and Veterans Affairs these final years have been comfortable, active and engaging. When someone becomes ill it takes a whole army of support to sometimes just make it through the day. All of us did what we could to make sure Dad's final years were the best they could be. Our sister Karen, however, went above and beyond. She was there for my parents always. A fierce advocate for patient care, Karen made sure that dad got the care he needed when he needed it. She supported both mom and dad tirelessly and thanks to her, they were able to live together right up till the end. Mom and Dad's sons in law and grandchildren have also been a terrific support throughout the years and we are truly grateful. Most of all, we are forever thankful for the unending love and the tender care that mom gave to our dad. The strength, determination and selflessness that you have shown is inspiring. It couldn't have been easy and we are so proud of what you have done. Dad always had a wonderful zest for life. You could see it and feel it. He lived life to the fullest and like many of us, he didn't much like the hospital. Over the past few years whenever a hospital stay was necessary, we could see the worry building. Dad wasn't ready to leave and we could sense his fear. I wasn't with him, but I'm told that in the last days that fear went away and was replaced with a calmness. It seems as though he was finally ready and it eases our pain to know that he went in peace. On that day last week as dad was taking his last earthly breaths, imagine the gathering of heavenly souls that must have taken place. How excited they must have been to come together to welcome dad to his new home. The crowd would have been massive....Bea, Roy, Aunt Lilly, Uncle Henry, all those friends and relatives that had gone before, and of course there'd be a host of cats and dogs; Smokey, Midnight, Buddy, Katie, Barney, Victor, Lincoln, and Bailey would be there too. And standing there front and centre, arms open wide, radiating with pride and joy, Alice and Albert once again embracing their son, praising him... 'a life well lived my son, a life well lived indeed'.
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Judi posted a condolence
Saturday, October 17, 2015
Janet -
My sympathy to you and your family on the passing of your dad. Take care.
Judi Cuvelier
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Noreen Templeton posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 26, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to you, Kitty, and your family. Jeff & I will never forget your kindness by picking us up and taking us to our first Manco Xmas party many years ago. We know you will have many great memories and trust they will help you through this very sad time. Noreen & Jeff Templeton
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keith heming posted a condolence
Saturday, August 22, 2015
Janet & Phil - very sorry to hear of your loss. Lost my step-father at 98 recently. Even when expecting it, always a shock. Sincere condolences. Keith Heming
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wendy wood posted a condolence
Saturday, August 22, 2015
my deepest sympathy to you all another great east ender has left us from wendy Derouin -wood.
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Bill and Shirley Smith posted a condolence
Friday, August 21, 2015
Sorry to Hear of Ernie's passing .our thoughts are with the family .
Bill and Shirley Smith Calgary Ab.
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Merlene McFadyen posted a condolence
Friday, August 21, 2015
So sorry to hear of your huge loss, Gods love to you all Merlene McFadyen (Jones)
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Glenda Sattler posted a condolence
Thursday, August 20, 2015
Today was a beautiful tribute to a very wonderful kind and gentle man. Karen, Sherrill , Janet and Neil the eulogy for your dad was amazing every word was written with so much love.Aunt Kitty your marriage to Uncle Ernie was a true rarity these days.. So much love and respect for each other. Condolences and love from Robert and Glenda Sattler
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E Airey posted a condolence
Thursday, August 20, 2015
Cathy & family. We are sorry to hear of Ernie passing away, We are sure that you will have many fond memories, and we will always remember his wonderful smile.
Ed & Isobel Airey
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Donna Mitchell posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 19, 2015
Cathy & family and Karen & family, So sorry to hear of Ernie's passing. May your memories help you find peace.
Donna Mitchell
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Betty Cochrane posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 18, 2015
My sincere condolences to you and your family Cathy. I fondly remember our visit at the Souris Personal Care Home when my mom and Ernie's mom were residents there.
Betty Cochrane
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Murray & Phyllis Kennedy posted a condolence
Monday, August 17, 2015
Cathy & family- So sorry to read of Ernie's passing. He was a fine gentleman and friend. With sympathy. Murray and Phyllis Kennedy, Calgary, Ab.
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Anne Marie posted a condolence
Monday, August 17, 2015
Sincere condolences to Cathy, Karen, Janet, Sherrill and Neil and the extended family on the loss of Ernie. I was so sorry to hear the sad news. By all accounts Ernie lived a full and happy life and was surrounded by a lovely family. We are thinking of you all here. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam dílis (May his faithful soul be at the right hand side of God). From Anne Marie and all your family in Ireland.
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