Tree of Memories
For 24 years, the "Brockie Donovan Tree of Memories" Candlelight Memorial Service has been a special evening that allows people in our community to join together in remembering our loved ones who are no longer with us to celebrate the holidays. Approximately 600 members of our community have attended the service each year. It has become a tradition for many families as it provides an opportunity to take a moment during this normally busy holiday season to truly reflect and appreciate all that their loved one brought to their lives.
We recognize that the Holidays can be a challenging time for those who’ve experienced the death of a loved one, and they can trigger intense emotions of loss. The feelings of grief can be just as painful as when they were first felt. It is our hope that by honouring the memory of those we have lost will provide some peace as we face the Holidays without them.
Please join us to honour and remember your loved one on Thursday, December 1, 2022 at McDiarmid Drive Alliance Church at 7:00 p.m.
We invite you to watch the 2021 Tree of Memories Community Candlelight Memorial Service. Due to the pandemic, we were not able to safely gather as we have done in the past. We do recognize and value the importance and the need in our community to have a special service of reflection, and so we held a smaller service, to be viewed remotely, in hopes of offering words of comfort to those grieving this holiday season.
There is often pressure on grieving individuals (either internally, or from others) to put aside their sadness and hurt and be full of joy and thanksgiving. However, memories of their loved one resurface during events where their loved one would have been. It is our hope this article written by leading grief psychologist, Dr. Alan Wolfelt, will help you understand how to help yourself heal during the holiday season, or how to support someone you know who is grieving over the holidays.
“Holidays are time spent with loved ones” was imprinted on our psyche from a young age. They are part of the milestones we share with each other and they generally represent time spent with family. But since holidays are for being with those we love the most, how on earth can anyone be expected to cope with them when a loved one has died? For many people, this is the hardest part of grieving, when we miss our loved ones even more than usual. The need for support may be the greatest during the holidays. There are a number of ways to incorporate your loved one and your loss into the holidays. It is our hope this video will give you guidance as you face the holidays without your loved one.