Tuesday, May 19, 2015
The sorrow I felt when hearing of Shirley's passing cannot be expressed in words. My name is Derek, and while it pains me greatly, I would like to take this time to say a few words.
Snow white hair, roast beef dinners, Chicken Dance and a mean baseball swing are permanent memories that always bring a smile to my face. While fun, I now suspect chasing the baseballs she hit was in an effort to tire me out. I'm still not sure how she managed me during the summers! The summers. The escape I anticipated yearly was full of adventure, mystery and joy. After an eternity in the sun, the summer would end and I would do one final Chicken Dance for the road. I was never sad as we drove away because there was next summer. The summers ended, but the bond we created is eternal. I love her and feel her in my heart; the feeling of security which cannot be explained is a constant reminder of her impact on my life.
Shirley was a strong and independent woman; a loving, giving, compassionate, wonderful mother and dear friend to many. Her love and guidance was monumental in making me the man I am today, and for that I will be forever grateful. We love her in passing as we did in life, and her memory will always be with us.
